"...and there came a time when he was around these parts enough that I saw
 a serene pleasantness in his face, and started to believe in his love.  I
 used to only LOOK AT THE PHYSICAL APPEARANCE OF A GUY, BUT NOW the appearance showed something about him.  It wasn't enough to have a
good looking man, but a woman needs a good man - with gentleness, kindness, humility, and wanting to grab destiny right then and there...something I wanted to reach out and touch, so I gave in and let him in"